Do You Want Perfect Health?
If you do, then it's time to reconsider.
We are constantly bombarded with promises of perfection, have you noticed?
Ads featuring flawless bodies, glowing skin, and claims of reversing aging crowd our screens and magazines. These messages suggest that perfect health is not only achievable but that it’s our responsibility to pursue it—no matter the cost.
But here’s the truth: perfect health doesn’t exist. Perfect bodies don’t exist. Perfect skin is unattainable. A perfect diet is impossible.
Despite what countless weight loss programs and products promise, there’s no such thing as a state of flawless, perpetual vitality. We ebb and flow like the ocean. Human bodies are dynamic, ever-changing, and imperfect by nature. Yet, our culture’s obsession with achieving an idealized version of health sets us up for disappointment, frustration, and even harm. It leaves us striving for the wrong goal. It also leaves us living in avoidance of all things that might disrupt perfection.
The Danger of Unrealistic Expectations
The myth of perfect health fosters a harmful narrative that distorts our relationship with our bodies and well-being. This narrative convinces us that we must look a certain way, feel invincible, and avoid aging at all costs. When we inevitably fall short, we blame ourselves. We double down on restrictive diets, over-exercise, or chase the latest “health hack” that promises to fix what’s “wrong.”
This isn’t health—it’s a trap. Unrealistic expectations push people to:
Over-invest in unproven products or extreme interventions.
Dismiss small, meaningful progress as failure.
Develop anxiety or guilt when their bodies don’t meet impossible standards.
The fixation on reversing aging is particularly insidious. Messages about “aging backward” defy natural laws, disregarding the beauty of growth, wisdom, and the lived experience that aging represents. Worse, they imply that aging is a flaw to be corrected, rather than a natural part of life to be respected and embraced.
The Beauty-Enhancing Industry is Creating and Thriving on Our Insecurities
The beauty-enhancing industry has built its powerful empire by identifying and amplifying insecurities, especially in women. From lip fillers and breast augmentations to procedures that promise a more youthful appearance, the industry preys on the deeply ingrained belief that we are not enough as we are. This relentless pursuit of perfection leaves many women trapped in a cycle of cosmetic interventions, each procedure addressing the unintended consequences of the last.
A striking example is the use of GLP-1 medications for weight loss. (You know we love to talk about this in this newsletter!)
These drugs, such as Ozempic, have gained massive popularity for their ability to shed pounds quickly, but they often come with unintended consequences. One notable side effect is the dramatic change in skin elasticity, often referred to as “Ozempic face.”
Rapid weight loss causes the skin to sag and appear hollow, and those who do so are faced with a new problem: changes in the skin caused by GLP-1s… creating a whole new category of patients.
One surgeon commented in his article that underneath the skin looked like an old, used rubber band. Yikes!
In general, cosmetic surgeries continue to rise in popularity. The beauty industry is thriving in the striving for beauty environment, and is expected to grow. The U.S. drives most of the revenue in this industry, offering endless solutions to fix the very problems that often stem from shortcuts to health.
But this phenomenon is not just about aesthetics. It reveals a deeper issue: how cultural pressures to meet unrealistic beauty standards steer people away from sustainable, health-focused habits. Instead of prioritizing robust health through lifestyle interventions like The Core 4: exercise, nutrition, hydration, and sleep, many are drawn to quick fixes that come with significant trade-offs.
The focus shifts from long-term vitality to a superficial, fleeting ideal, perpetuating dependence on external enhancements.
This race for perfection eclipses the concept of natural beauty--the kind that emerges from a life well-lived and a body well-nourished. True beauty isn’t found in a syringe or scalpel but in the glow of health, confidence, and strength. Natural beauty reflects vibrancy, resilience, and the unique qualities that make each person extraordinary. It’s sustainable, empowering, and deeply fulfilling in a way that cosmetic enhancements can never replicate.
By shifting the narrative from achieving perfection to embracing health and vitality, we can break free from the pressures imposed by the beauty industry. Natural beauty isn’t about conforming to societal standards--it’s about embracing the best version of ourselves, one that flourishes through balanced, intentional living. In doing so, we reclaim our health and redefine what it means to be truly beautiful.
Redefining Health: Progress, Not Perfection
So, if perfect health isn’t real, what should we aim for instead? The answer lies in progress over perfection. Health isn’t a static state to be achieved but an ongoing relationship with your body—a journey of care, resilience, and adaptation.
Health is dynamic. It’s about how we nurture our bodies through the changing seasons of life. Rather than chasing unrealistic aesthetic ideals, it focuses on functional goals like energy, strength, and clarity of mind. Most importantly, it’s about self-compassion and recognizing that imperfection is not failure—it’s humanity.
Challenging the “Anti-Aging” Obsession
The cultural obsession with “aging backward” deserves special attention. While improving quality of life as we age is a worthy goal, the notion that we can (or should) reverse time is misguided. It fosters an unhealthy denial of the natural aging process, leading many to seek extreme or harmful interventions. I liked this article about aging backward (but please put on your critical thinking cap and ask yourself if what they offer at the end is something you really need to do).
Instead of chasing youth, let’s focus on vitality. How can we feel energized, capable, and fulfilled at any age? How can we embrace the wisdom and richness that come with life experience? These questions matter and lead us to a healthier, more sustainable approach to well-being.
Living with Joy Instead
If you’re ready to let go of the myth of perfect health, here are some practical ways to shift your mindset and approach:
Focus on what’s achievable and meaningful to you, such as improving energy levels or managing stress, rather than chasing unattainable ideals.
Recognize and appreciate incremental progress. Health isn’t all-or-nothing—every positive step counts.
Be skeptical of ads and social media posts that glorify perfection. Remember, most of these messages are designed to sell, not to serve.
Shift your perspective from “anti-aging” to “pro-aging,” celebrating the strengths and joys that come with each stage of life.
Recognize that health is an ongoing process of learning, adapting, and growing. There’s no finish line, and that’s not only okay, but it’s also an adventure, a magical journey, and dare I say that it can be FUN!
Stop the Striving for Perfection Madness
It’s up to you and me to stop chasing an illusion. Perfect health and eternal youth are not only unattainable but also unnecessary for a fulfilling, vibrant life. By rejecting these harmful ideals, we free ourselves to focus on what really matters: caring for our bodies, embracing our humanity, using our health to better others, and living with resilience and joy at every stage.
Your health journey is yours alone, and it's meant to be imperfect. After all, it's through imperfection that we grow, learn, and truly thrive.
I also encourage you to read my article about Choosing Self Discovery Over Instant Relief, which is essential to this conversation.
Have a great weekend, health heroes!
In good health,
Dr. Alice
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